Randomness

Jan. 15th, 2014 08:27 am
elfinblaze: (me writing)
- When I first did my First Aid certificate I was terrified that I might one day have to use it, and that I would freeze and panic instead. I thought the most likely scenario would be a niece or nephew falling in the swimming pool and drowning. I was wrong on both accounts. Turns out it was a crying, vomiting, gagging, choking child, and her terrified and panicking mother. And I didn't freeze. So much or first aid is just reassuring people, and I didn't even think twice about whether I knew what to do. I just acted.

I'm not sharing this to toot my own horn - ok, maybe a little, I am proud of myself for handling it - but I also want to share just how valuable a first aid certificate can be. It's not just knowing what to do, it's about having the confidence to do it, and being prepared, because you never know when or how it might come in handy. I am so, so glad I did mine.

- Hee. I just came across a comment stating: The world we live in is a far greater state of moral decay than our grandparent's generation. Considering my grandparents lived in Nazi Germany, I can only laugh. Long and loud.

- Peter Montgomery writes weekly reports on QUILTBAG news from around the world. They are great summaries of the state of things in various counties, and the biggest issues that have been in the news. For example, he highlights the rising incidence of violence against gay people in Russia, to give the most recent example.

- This is the best comment I've read about the Ali Choudhry situation. As if we needed any more illustration that Australia fails on refugee acceptance, especially if they're gay. Just this morning I was reading about Nigerians fleeing their county after the passage of new anti-gay laws, and my first thought was, "don't try to come to Australia because you will be refused." This article: We have little tolerance for gays seeing asylum, was published in 2010, and it still haunts me because it's just as true and just as depressing as it was four years ago.

- For some good news though: Australian jurisdictions moving to wipe out historical gay sex charges. This means that among others, Noel Tovey will finally have his criminal conviction scrapped.
elfinblaze: (me writing)
Yesterday I saw my niece crawling down the corridor. I assumed she was following her mother and continued watching TV.

Ten minutes later I heard a very satisfied "Heh" sound coming from behind me. I turned around to see a smiling 11 month-old poke her head around the corner to my bedroom.

My first thought was, "Uh oh," but before I could even get up, Magpie waved to me with great pride. In her hand was my mobile phone. The little monster had managed to unlock it and had open goodness-knows what app doing hell-if-I-know with it.

No wonder she was so pleased with herself. All that time I'd thought she was with her mother she was stirring up trouble in my room.

A few hours later I discovered a soggy, chewed-up jigsaw piece in my carpet.

She obviously had the time of her life in my room.
elfinblaze: (me writing)
Christmas in bullet points:

plus 1 photo )

Randomness

Dec. 10th, 2013 10:01 am
elfinblaze: (me writing)
- Ha! My sister is interested in playing more board games with me! YES! One down, six billion to go!

- The same sister was trying to sing her baby to sleep yesterday. The only problem is that Magpie likes music, so much so that whenever she hears it she starts dancing and trying to sing along. Guess what happened when my sister tried singing her to sleep yesterday? Sort of defeats the purpose of getting her to sleep. Dear baby, stop trying to sing along to your own lullabies.

- I would like to write up my thoughts on Glee at some point, but it's so hot I have to switch off my computer about 10am every day because I don't want it overheating. Again.

- Same-sex marriage is now legal in one small jurisdiction in Australia (the Australian Capital Territory, or ACT) because the government of the territory actually listened to the people. The news reports coming out of the territory now are making me smile. So happy for them.

- Irish actor Gabriel Byrne, who has been openly critical of the Catholic church in the past, is sounding off about Pope Francis.
“Can one man change an institution? I feel the answer is no,” Byrne said. “He can initiate certain reforms in the Vatican … but unless he radically alters the policies of the Catholic church there won’t be a change.”

Randomness

Nov. 12th, 2013 09:17 am
elfinblaze: (fire dancer)
- Happy belated Birthday, [livejournal.com profile] starwolvie! I hope it was a good one, and I hope the next year of your life brings you gasps of laughter, tears of joy, and a heart aching with happiness. You deserve it.

- In less cheerful news, my last remaining grandparent died on the weekend. My grandmother was... 92, I think? I wasn't close to her. She decided she'd had enough of hospitals and that she was going to stop treatment for liver failure. She went quickly after that. My favourite story from her was from her school days: she once stole her teacher's cane and hid it down the front of her dress. Then she walked, standing up nice and tall, straight out of the classroom.

- If there are any JRock fans still reading this, Dir en grey are confirmed to perform at Soundwave 2014.. My brother told me about this a few days ago. It makes me wish I liked their music more because I could actually see them now, but I only liked their early stuff. Oh well. I'm sure they'll have plenty of fans show up anyway. There's some other bands listed that look interesting too... HIM, Rob Zombie, Placebo, Stone Temple Pilots, Alkaline Trio, Bowling For Soup... those are just the ones I like, but there's some big names on there.

Randomness

Oct. 24th, 2013 11:49 am
elfinblaze: (Harry Potter Hermione)
- The sky isn't orange (with smoke) anymore! But I can still smell the occasional whiff of smoke. Thank goodness it's cooler today.

- I just realised I've only read 7 fiction books this year. All the others have been non-fiction.

- It's amazing how quiet the house is when Magpie is at playgroup. Normally, at home, she's a little rascal, getting into everything she's not supposed to: chewing electric cables, pulling stuff off tables, climbing on everything like a monkey, etc. Outside the house, she's a little angel. The whole family (plus various significant others) went out for lunch last weekend, and she handled the crowded restaurant so well: she never got scared or tired, and she never complained. She just looked around with interest, and sat still, eating. She was the best behaved child in the whole place.

- Australian Capital Territory (ACT) Passes Same-Sex Marriage Bill
Under the new law, same-sex couples throughout Australia will be able to marry in the ACT by the end of the year. The awkwardly-named bill's title was the result of several last-minute changes made in an attempt to head off a promised High Court challenge by the Federal Government under Tony Abbot.

- And in my own state: Australian state next to move forward on same-sex marriage
A bill to legalize same-sex marriage in the Australian state of New South Wales (NSW) will be introduced in the state Upper House as soon as next Thursday and all MPs will be allowed to vote with their consciences on it.

Weddings

Sep. 26th, 2013 07:35 am
elfinblaze: (quiltbag)
I've been sitting on the majority of this post for years because I feel so awkward about this whole thing. On the other hand, isn't feeling awkward a good reason to talk about it?

What other people say: "Hey, come and have a look at this engagement ring/wedding dress/photo/etc!"

What my inner voice replies: "Not for you, you great big dyke! Not for you! Not for you! Not for you! Not for you! Not for you! Not for you! Not for you! Not for you!"

So what other people say ends up sounding more like:

"Hey, come and have a look at this wonderful thing you're not allowed to have! Here! Look! See how fantastic it is? You're not allowed to have this! Look! Look at this amazing thing you're not allowed to have! See? Wonderful, isn't it?"

Maybe I should say something, but I don't want to spoil someone else's happiness with my bitterness, so then I just end up staying silent and feeling guilty about feeling bitter. And it's stupid anyway, because I don't even want to get married, but I still end up feeling like this. And I do feel happy for others - it's not that I'm completely incapable of feeling happy for other people - but it's just all messed up all over.

I'm finally posting this now because a couple of days ago my sister got engaged to her long-time boyfriend. (This is the elder of my two younger sisters; not the one with the baby.) The wedding won't be for a few years yet (Magpie will be old enough to be the flower girl by then), but the night I found out I still ended up crying in my bedroom. I'm sure I'll get over it. If Andersen's Little Mermaid could endure silence and knives in her feet with every step, then so can I.

I'm determined to be happy for her, so she'll never know any different. After all, her wedding isn't about me. So I'm not going to ruin her excitement, although I may need to take a break once in a while, depending on how much she wants me to be involved.
elfinblaze: (me writing)
Oh my god, I have a call back for a job. Ooooooh my god... My hands are shaking as I type. This would be a pretty similar job to my last one (allied health, but a different speciality), reception, office administration work. It's far from guaranteed (this is just the first call back), but it's something.

The other exciting thing is my niece. Last week she was going after her grandmother's library book; we explained to her that it was "a book." She repeated "aboo." Then, yesterday, I was walking past our bookshelves and she said without prompting, "aboo."

I'm hoping this is a good sign: at not quite seven months she's recognised and remembered what books are.
elfinblaze: (me writing)
In the past week or so, Magpie has:
- said "erro" for "hello"
- started eating solids (we couldn't shovel mashed banana into her mouth fast enough)
- sat up by herself
- crawled (it was only a one knee-push, just far enough to reach my wiggly fingers, but it's a start)
And she's not even five months old.

Right now she's tumbling up and down all over the place. Soon we're going to be chasing after her every minute of the day.

She also has the cutest little belly laugh.

- I only just found out that my cousin's father is one of seven sons. And now my cousin (one of two sons) is the father of four daughters (so far). From one extreme to the other.

- The Theatre Royale is putting on Angels in America parts 1 AND 2!! I am so damn tempted to go see both parts. I've wanted to see the whole play performed ever since I first read it. The whole play is about six hours long, which is why productions usually only stage part 1 or 2 but not both. But do I want to spend $150 to see both parts? Hm... so tempted... Waaaant!

- What's the Most Intellectual Joke You Know?
Reminds me of the time in philosophy class we were talking about getting out of doing the upcoming test on Sartre. I suggested our teacher demonstrate Sartre's idea of nothingness. I'm still proud of the fact that it made the entire class roar with laughter.
(For non-philosophy students, I just suggested in the most philosophically geeky way possible that our teacher be absent so we wouldn't have to sit the test.)
As far as I remember, I passed that test, and yes, some of these jokes made me laugh way too hard. Luckily I don't care about ever being considered "cool".

Randomness

May. 16th, 2013 10:25 am
elfinblaze: (me writing)
- There's a rainbow crossing in my subburb! Almost gone by now, but you can still see the traces of it on the road.

- My niece is learning to connect her hands with what she sees. Last week I was wiggling my hand in front of her (the left hand with four rings and three bracelets) and the little magpie was fascinated by the bling. She was focussed on it for about ten minutes straight, face concentrating, her fingers flexing and hand twitching, like she was trying to work out how to reach for it. The next day my mother was wearing a new scarf, and Magpie reached up almost on instinct to touch it. Then she looked surprised to be touching it, that she could feel something. So she's learning to reach for things.

- She also may or may not have said "Mummy". It's a bit unclear yet. More like "Mah-wee".

- It's ironic that I left the Catholic Church a long time ago - half a lifetime now - and yet recently the things that have given me the most hope have been Christian blogs, but I'll take it. Hope is good, maybe especially when it comes from unexpected places.

- American Academy of Pediatrics: Promoting the Well-Being of Children Whose Parents Are Gay or Lesbian
Extensive data available from more than 30 years of research reveal that children raised by gay and lesbian parents have demonstrated resilience with regard to social, psychological, and sexual health despite economic and legal disparities and social stigma.
(full text freely available)

- This is a fun game to play: Combine the title of the book with the author's name to get a completely different meaning.
Call of the Wild Jack London
A History of Reading Alberto Manguel
The Silvered Tanya Huff
Trick of the Dark Val McDermid
Traitors Moon Lynn Flewelling
Walk Two Moons Sharon Creech
Harry Potter and the Philosophers Stone J.K. Rowling
elfinblaze: (me writing)
We have horrible discussions at my house.

Sister: My boyfriend owns part of a horse.
Youngest Sister: How does he own part of a horse?
Sister: He owns shares...
Me: He owns the left front foot.
Mother: I like to say he owns the tail.
Youngest Sister: So what happens when the horse dies?
Me: It goes to the glue factory.
Sister: Or taxidermied...
Mother: They send him his share.
Me: You should give him a bottle of glue as a memento.
Mother: Or a horse's tail.
Me: Give him a violin bow.

We were laughing, all except my youngest sister who was staring at us horrified. Apparently she's the only one who doesn't share our twisted sense of humour.

Books~

Mar. 29th, 2013 09:55 am
elfinblaze: (me writing)
I can't be bothered writing up a Gleeview for the last episode, despite how much I enjoyed it, especially Kitty trying to get rid of Vicky the Robot Girl. Such a tiny snippet of a scene, so much love.

My niece has learnt to smile. She's the most adorable baby, but I may be a bit biassed. I just walked in on my sister reading to her. :) Goldilocks.

Along to same lines, I started looking at children's books yesterday, thinking about what kind of books I want to read to her, and I've come to the conclusion that I will need to write a few. Mainly because the ones I want to read to her don't exist. Yet. Some of them are specific to our family, and some are books that I grew up with that just need updating (I'm talking newer scientific discoveries in non-fiction books), so I may as well do the work myself. Either way, I've got about five different ideas in my head right now, both for fiction and non-fiction books.

Busy

Mar. 12th, 2013 05:48 am
elfinblaze: (me writing)
I haven't been online because I'm trying not to run out of bandwidth before I watch all three of this month's Glee episodes. But if I had been online last night, this is what I would have shared:

Me: I am awesome.
T.: Modest much?
Me: Yesterday I finished a 500-piece puzzle and now I just got the baby to sleep. I am awesome.
T.: Oh god...
Me: What? There is nothing wrong with knowing how awesome you are.

But aside from enjoying irritating my sisters, I am rather proud of myself. T. thinks I'm the "baby whisperer" and says I have a "magic touch". I think I'm just quiet and patient. It's the same reason I finished that 500-piece puzzle, really.

Baby News

Feb. 20th, 2013 05:01 am
elfinblaze: (me writing)
There is a little person living in my house.

S. is staying here for the moment until her mother finds somewhere else to stay.

She's really strong. Nine days old and already holding up her own head. The doctor was impressed.

We'll see how much sleep I get from now on, though.
elfinblaze: (fire dancer)
- Listening to my boss and a patient comparing babies: "This one only crawls backwards. She hasn't figured out forwards yet. She pushes herself backwards under the coffee table, anything she can get under, and then she starts crying because she can't get herself out again."

- The blue winged flower wasps are back! Seeing little flashes of bright blue flying through the air outside my office window. It's beautiful.

- I might not be able to say anything if I'm unhappy with a patient, but you'll know I don't like you if I give you a pen from a funeral parlour to sign your name.

- Update for [livejournal.com profile] starwolvie and [livejournal.com profile] viciousdisorder: the house is fine. News from one of our patients who's been down there.

- And this is in Drum Media this week, if you can get your hands on it. It's only a paragraph on page 62, but he wasn't expecting this when I showed him:

scan )
elfinblaze: (Default)
My sister sorted through some old boxes of hers today. She found all sorts of stuff in the process. Like stuff she wrote in Primary School, for school assignments. In between gasps of laughter she read some of it to me.

There once was a kitten from Mice
Who thought she had too much spice.
She decided to change
But felt very strange
When she turned into something so nice.


She and I were literally crying with laughter reading some of these things.

Like a story she wrote called, "How the Leopord Got His Spots". It begins, "A long time ago, back in the dreamtime, there lived a leopord..." Yes. A "leopord". In the Dreamtime. I didn't realise leopards were native to Australia.

She also found an essay titled, "Why I Like Small Furniture".

Neither of us knows what she was thinking. She was a strange child.
elfinblaze: (Tardis vs Cthulhu)
- Happy Easter everyone!

- My brother's girlfriend seems to have become another member of the family. She's just quirky enough to fit right in with us, and we even decided to stage an Easter egg hunt with her today, because she'd never had one before (she's Vietnamese and doesn't celebrate Easter) and the rest of us 17 - 29-year-olds just decided we wanted to have an Easter egg hunt. My brother's out somewhere now but she's still hanging around here. It really is almost like we have another family member.

My family is bloody awesome!

- Glee, episode 2x17, "Night of Neglect", will be on Australian TV on Star Wars Day. May the fourth... be with you.

- Along the same lines, Towel Day is on 25th of May.

- I haven't watched Doctor Who yet; I'll wait until after I get my hands on the next episode of Glee, and if we haven't exhausted our download quota for the month after that, I'll catch up on Doctor Who. Or I'll just watch it on TV next weekend.

- This is a lovely vid of two of my favourite Glee couples (Kurt/Blaine and Brittany/Santana) set to P!nk's "Fuckin'Perfect". Glee + P!nk + great editing = awesome fanvid.

- Classic cartoon characters reimagined as Cthulhu.

- How to fix any computer, for Windows, Apple, and Linux.
elfinblaze: (Glee Kurt Blaine)
- Stuff to look forward to:

April 19: Glee, episode 17, "Night of Neglect"
April 22: Good Friday. Day off work!
April 23: Doctor Who series 6
April 24: Easter Sunday. Chocolate Day!
April 25: Easter Monday & ANZAC Day. Another day off work!
April 26: Glee, episode 18, "Born This Way" (extra long special episode! Whee!)
April 30: Those Who Fight Monsters released.

- A few days ago my brother thought he had lice because his scalp was itchy. My mother's first comment was: "Zum Glück hab ich keine Haare" ("Luckily I don't have hair.")

See? There's a up side to everything. Even cancer treatments.

- I got a lift home from David last night. He happened to be driving past, saw me waiting at the bus stop, and offered me a lift home.

I can't help but feel like the two of us are going to spend a great chunk of our lives orbiting each other, whether we want to or not, just because this keeps happening. I first met him 11 years ago, on the bus, both of us on our way home from school. We became friends first; a few years later we went out a couple of times but I called it off because I realised I was gay. And now we both work and have our own lives, and we still keep running into each other on trains, on the street, randomly. I think if I travelled to the moon I'd still run into him there, it's that sort of weird relationship.

But it's nice. We're still friends and one thing that never once changed was how easily we talk. So that was the fastest trip home ever; time flies in good company.

- I have a new baby cousin. Cousin once removed, to be exact, but still. Welcome to the world, Emma.

But the best part of this is her birthday's not in February! I guess she missed out cause the rest of us are hogging all those February birthdays.

- Posted another fic here. It's no more than me attempting to break through this writer's block I'm stuck on, and some thoughts that were occurring to me, but [livejournal.com profile] viciousdisorder would badger me forever if she found out I'd finished a story and not shared it with her, so that's for you, brat.

- Apparently Borders is closing down its shops in Hornsby, Macquarie, and Parramatta, among others. I'm sure Dymocks, QBD, and the independent bookshops are pleased.
elfinblaze: (Glee Kurt Blaine)
- New word I learnt today: Spondyloarthropathy. Which is an inflammatory arthritis of the spine that tests negative for a rheumatic factor. I got to type up all sorts of fun phrases like "ruptured abdominal aortic aneurysm" and "retroperitoneal haemorrhage". You know, stuff that makes you think things like oh god, that sounds awful! ^_^ The joys of working in the health industry.

- Some people crunch on celery sticks for a healthy snack. I munch on raw rhubarb sticks. We bought some rhubarb last week and I've been snacking on it all week. Stops me from snacking on sugar on the train to and from work.

- The more I read of other people's opinions on Glee, episode 14 (next week's episode, if you're Australian; last week's, if you're American), the more insecure I feel for loving an episode that was so reviled in other parts. Maybe it's just that I needed to laugh, so I loved it more than most. But I'm not going to feel bad for enjoying something, especially considering I need the cheer in my life right now. Yes, we have more family drama. My brother said it best: it's like a TV soap opera. He's not wrong. I'm not going to talk about it because a) I don't feel like it, b) certainly not in a public blog, and c) I still don't know what's going to happen or how big and dramatic things will all turn out to be. The point is, I'm going to enjoy what I can, dwell on the good, even if it's one TV show that makes me smile once a week, even if no one else agrees. Because I have far, far worse in RL that I could complain about.

- This is a pretty accurate representation of my brain too. Except replace food with Glee, and the tumblr. section should be tumblr/LJ. But other than that...

- Tom Felton, James & Oliver Phelps, Natalia Tena to attend Australian fan conventions, if you want to see them in Sydney, Melbourne, or Brisbane.
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So much to write! Point form under the cut, to spare you all.

Christmas and more )

And it's still only Sunday! I have two more days off! *spins*

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